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When They Go Low, We Go High
We are at that time again where opposing views of the world are presented in ways that do not serve anyone. As I listen, watch and participate (way, way too much for a sane mind) I sadly realize that no matter what happens, we continue the practices that gridlock our...
Failing to Succeed
A client of ours is facing failure of his business. On one hand he knows he manifested this because he’s wanted to do something different for a while now. And yet, he painfully feels the years of blood, sweat, tears, fears and money devoted to the business. He laments...
I Saved My Marriage and My Life
Twelve years ago I participated in a Get Clarity™ retreat as a client. Didn’t know it at the time but I was saving my marriage to Cathy before I even asked her. Cathy and I fell in love very quickly and knew we wanted to be together. Then Cathy said, “I have a rule....
I Can’t Even Do a 90-Minute Challenge
Several people I know are doing a 90-day personal challenge. Every day for 90 days they commit to do one action that they want to change or develop in their life—exercise, avoid sugar, work less. I’m very clear on where I want to develop better habits—meditation,...
What if Your Mind Changes Itself?
Eighteen months ago our good friend and client, Theresa, was a victim of a car accident. Her vehicle was not only broadsided by another car, it was also forced head on into a brick wall. During each of these external hits, Theresa’s head bounced against another hard...
Teach Me to Be Kind
Many years ago, a former girlfriend requested, “Teach me to be kind. I don’t know how.” “I can’t teach you to be kind,” I replied, “You need to learn that on your own.” What I meant, at the time, was that I really wasn’t willing to be her teacher, because I didn’t...
Can We Worry Effectively?
I began pondering this question recently after listening to a very accomplished, smart, experienced business owner express her anxieties about her business and her abilities as a leader. She worries that she hasn’t done enough; her business is not growing fast enough;...
Changing My Name to Will Power
Several weeks ago, Cathy and I attended a memorial service for our daughter-in-law’s 95-year-old grandfather, Warren Mugler. We listened as his grandchildren and others honored him. They described a man who was dedicated to his family and disciplined in his daily...
Positive Thinking v. Reality Thinking
I am generally a positive, optimistic person—say 75% of the time. I only slip into negative worry about 25% of the time. Unfortunately, my negative conversation often communicates in the background of my mind; trying to get my attention, screaming, “YOU ARE ONLY...
Aging Reflections
I am officially beginning my eighth decade on what Cathy terms “Earth University.” After reviewing some sixteen-year-old journal notes, I realize I’ve come a long way in my personal growth and self-understanding in the last couple of decades. On the other hand, I’m...
