by Gary | Jun 18, 2026 | Align Your Actions, Clarity in Life, Effective Communication, Gratitude, Intention
Twenty-one years ago, I participated in a Get Clarity retreat as a client. Didn’t know it at the time but I was saving my marriage to Cathy before I even asked her. Cathy and I fell in love very quickly and knew we wanted to be together. Then Cathy said, “I have a...
by Gary | Jun 27, 2025 | Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Thoughts, Clarity in Life
I glanced at my to-do list this morning and realized that I was so far behind that for many of the items on the list, the ink was faded from age. Then I felt pressure—the pressure of not working hard enough, not being more disciplined, basically not being good enough....
by Gary | May 2, 2025 | Align Your Actions, Blog, Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Thoughts, Clarity in Life, Clarity In Vision, Clarity Words, Get Clarity, Gratitude, Intention, Kindness
I don’t know if it’s maturity, training, or letting go, but I no longer get uptight waiting for my wife to get ready to leave the house. While calmly waiting for Cathy the other evening, I remembered this wasn’t always so. In the past, when other people delayed my...
by Gary | Apr 25, 2025 | Align Your Actions, Blog, Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Thoughts, Clarity in Life, Clarity In Vision, Clarity Words, Get Clarity, Gratitude, Intention, Kindness
Joy is the Present Moment with Nothing Added In the late 90s, I took an eight-week Mindfulness Meditation class. Before I could enroll, the instructor asked me why I wanted to do it. I said I wanted more joy in my life. His response was, “My 80-year-old Jewish Zen...
by Gary | Apr 4, 2025 | Align Your Actions, Blog, Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Thoughts, Clarity in Life, Clarity In Vision, Clarity Words, Get Clarity, Gratitude, Intention, Kindness
I’m Tired of Being a Work-in-Progress The other day, I did something silly and ineffective for the umpteenth time in my life (details not important). I caught it quickly. As I recognized the familiarity of the behavior and the negative Gary feeling, I said to myself,...
by Gary | Apr 16, 2018 | Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Thoughts, Clarity in Life, Energy Field, Intention, Uncategorized
Recently, I read that a woman in Mesa, AZ ran over her husband with their SUV because he didn’t vote on November 6th. She chased him through a parking lot because she was enraged about the election results. See what can happen in your personal life, if you allow the...