by Gary | Jun 18, 2026 | Align Your Actions, Clarity in Life, Effective Communication, Gratitude, Intention
Twenty-one years ago, I participated in a Get Clarity retreat as a client. Didn’t know it at the time but I was saving my marriage to Cathy before I even asked her. Cathy and I fell in love very quickly and knew we wanted to be together. Then Cathy said, “I have a...
by Gary | May 1, 2026 | Align Your Actions, Change Your Thoughts, Effective Communication, Gratitude, Intention
We have a rule in the House of Clarity. Everyone who is under our roof gets spoiled. We recognize that being spoiled is defined as overindulgence and is widely viewed negatively. We use that phrase as an exaggeration to emphasize that we want to do all we can as a...
by Gary | Oct 24, 2025 | Above the Line, Align Your Actions, Change Your Thoughts, Effective Communication, Intention
Two experiences in the past year have been great reminders of how I can allow things I have no control over to impact my thoughts, health, and energy. We have all experienced large company customer service (a true misnomer). For me, it was two separate occasions with...
by Gary | Jul 11, 2025 | Align Your Actions, Change Your Thoughts
A few years ago, I spent an entire day, 24 hours, worrying about something that wasn’t real. I didn’t even try to shift my thinking to trusting in a different outcome, even though I recognized I didn’t have all the information. I just “knew” my fear of what was...
by Gary | Jun 6, 2025 | Align Your Actions, Blog, Change Your Thoughts
As I was falling asleep last night, my mind decided that it was an opportune time to travel down memory lane — not to visit the many wonderful memories, but to remind me of my past mistakes — decade by decade, relationship by relationship, financial decision by...
by Gary | May 2, 2025 | Align Your Actions, Blog, Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Thoughts, Clarity in Life, Clarity In Vision, Clarity Words, Get Clarity, Gratitude, Intention, Kindness
I don’t know if it’s maturity, training, or letting go, but I no longer get uptight waiting for my wife to get ready to leave the house. While calmly waiting for Cathy the other evening, I remembered this wasn’t always so. In the past, when other people delayed my...
