by Gary | Mar 6, 2026 | Change Your Thoughts, Effective Communication, Gratitude, Intention
As if aging isn’t enough of a worry, now I have to quit complaining or worry about impacting Cathy’s intelligence. A recent online article mentioned that research shows that exposure to too much complaining can actually make you...
by Gary | Feb 20, 2026 | Align Your Actions, Change Your Thoughts, Effective Communication, Gratitude, Intention
We have a rule in the House of Clarity. Everyone who is under our roof gets spoiled. We recognize that being spoiled is defined as overindulgence and is widely viewed negatively. We use that phrase as an exaggeration to emphasize that we want to do all we can as a...
by Gary | Feb 6, 2026 | Above the Line, Change Your Thoughts, Effective Communication, Gratitude, Intention
“If we win the lottery, I’m outta here?” I said to Cathy recently. She asked me what I would do, and I replied that I would spend a few years on the beach. As an insightful, understanding, and astute observer, Cathy replied that I would be bored in a week. Of course,...
by Gary | Jan 23, 2026 | Above the Line, Change Your Thoughts, Effective Communication, Gratitude, Intention
I get a lesson in excitement every morning when I walk the dogs with Cathy. “What a beautiful morning.” “Oh, smell those lilacs.” The noticing changes depending on the weather; however, it is an everyday lesson in positive thinking. Once in a while, I try to...
by Gary | Dec 5, 2025 | Above the Line, Change Your Thoughts, Effective Communication, Gratitude, Intention
Your Energy Has Influence. The Law of Attraction says that the positive or negative thoughts you send to your world will attract the same. Like attracts like – except when it doesn’t. Projecting positive energy can actually push away people who seem to personify...
by Gary | Nov 7, 2025 | Above the Line, Change Your Thoughts, Effective Communication, Intention
On my daily walk, I’ve noticed a few of my neighbors have put out signs to encourage people to pick up after their dogs. As a responsible dog owner, married to a master landscape artist, I am fully aware of the frustration and disgust I feel when I have to pick up...
