by Gary | Oct 3, 2025 | Above the Line, Change Your Thoughts, Effective Communication, Intention
I love reading the comics every day, not only for the humor but also for a reminder of life lessons. Since I limit my immature, angry outbursts to inanimate objects (and somewhat related, customer service people), reading this was another reminder that I create as I...
by Gary | Sep 19, 2025 | Above the Line, Change Your Thoughts, Effective Communication, Intention
What if I throw a big party and no one comes? What if I start this business and I go broke? What if I go to the audition and they don’t want me? These are examples of what Clarity calls “future-tripping”, creating a worst-case scenario about the future rather than a...
by Gary | Sep 5, 2025 | Above the Line, Change Your Thoughts, Effective Communication, Intention
Gary and I have been noticing how easy it is to get depressed, angry, and fearful for the safety of our country and our precious democracy. I know how important it is to stay above the line, hold my personal field, and keep myself resilient and positive regardless of...
by Gary | Aug 22, 2025 | Above the Line, Change Your Thoughts, Effective Communication, Intention
I tend to reflect on my past. As a regular reader of these posts can attest, I can spend time being critical of my past transgressions. However, I am also a very experienced nostalgia practitioner. As Cathy and I prepared for an upcoming vacation in San Diego, I...
by Gary | Aug 8, 2025 | Above the Line, Change Your Thoughts, Effective Communication, Intention
I’ve been having one of those days where anxiety seems to have more power than enthusiasm. It started before I woke up, and it’s been not easy to shift into enthusiasm. Fortunately, this doesn’t happen often, and I can usually focus on doing something that energizes...
by Gary | May 2, 2025 | Align Your Actions, Blog, Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Thoughts, Clarity in Life, Clarity In Vision, Clarity Words, Get Clarity, Gratitude, Intention, Kindness
I don’t know if it’s maturity, training, or letting go, but I no longer get uptight waiting for my wife to get ready to leave the house. While calmly waiting for Cathy the other evening, I remembered this wasn’t always so. In the past, when other people delayed my...
