by Gary | Feb 20, 2026 | Align Your Actions, Change Your Thoughts, Effective Communication, Gratitude, Intention
We have a rule in the House of Clarity. Everyone who is under our roof gets spoiled. We recognize that being spoiled is defined as overindulgence and is widely viewed negatively. We use that phrase as an exaggeration to emphasize that we want to do all we can as a...
by Gary | Feb 6, 2026 | Above the Line, Change Your Thoughts, Effective Communication, Gratitude, Intention
“If we win the lottery, I’m outta here?” I said to Cathy recently. She asked me what I would do, and I replied that I would spend a few years on the beach. As an insightful, understanding, and astute observer, Cathy replied that I would be bored in a week. Of course,...
by Gary | Jan 23, 2026 | Above the Line, Change Your Thoughts, Effective Communication, Gratitude, Intention
I get a lesson in excitement every morning when I walk the dogs with Cathy. “What a beautiful morning.” “Oh, smell those lilacs.” The noticing changes depending on the weather; however, it is an everyday lesson in positive thinking. Once in a while, I try to...
by Gary | Dec 5, 2025 | Above the Line, Change Your Thoughts, Effective Communication, Gratitude, Intention
Your Energy Has Influence. The Law of Attraction says that the positive or negative thoughts you send to your world will attract the same. Like attracts like – except when it doesn’t. Projecting positive energy can actually push away people who seem to personify...
by Gary | Nov 7, 2025 | Above the Line, Change Your Thoughts, Effective Communication, Intention
On my daily walk, I’ve noticed a few of my neighbors have put out signs to encourage people to pick up after their dogs. As a responsible dog owner, married to a master landscape artist, I am fully aware of the frustration and disgust I feel when I have to pick up...
by Gary | Oct 24, 2025 | Above the Line, Align Your Actions, Change Your Thoughts, Effective Communication, Intention
Two experiences in the past year have been great reminders of how I can allow things I have no control over to impact my thoughts, health, and energy. We have all experienced large company customer service (a true misnomer). For me, it was two separate occasions with...