by Gary | Nov 3, 2015 | Above the Line, Change Your Thoughts, Clarity in Life, Intention, Sacred Selfishness
Many years ago, a former girlfriend requested, “Teach me to be kind. I don’t know how.” “I can’t teach you to be kind,” I replied, “You need to learn that on your own.” What I meant, at the time, was that I really wasn’t willing to be her teacher, because I didn’t...
by Gary | Oct 28, 2015 | Above the Line, Change Your Thoughts, Clarity in Business, Clarity in Life
I began pondering this question recently after listening to a very accomplished, smart, experienced business owner express her anxieties about her business and her abilities as a leader. She worries that she hasn’t done enough; her business is not growing fast enough;...
by Gary | Aug 16, 2015 | Above the Line, Align Your Actions, Change Your Thoughts, Clarity In Vision
I am generally a positive, optimistic person—say 75% of the time. I only slip into negative worry about 25% of the time. Unfortunately, my negative conversation often communicates in the background of my mind; trying to get my attention, screaming, “YOU ARE ONLY...
by Gary | Nov 16, 2014 | Above the Line, Change Your Thoughts, Clarity in Life, Energy Field, Energy Work, Intention, Sacred Selfishness
For 55 years I’ve been a daily news junkie. Every day I take in information that allows me to experience a wide range of emotions – but mostly sadness and anger at the examples of the human condition reflecting the worst of human nature. It’s all news about events I...
by Gary | Sep 11, 2014 | Above the Line, Change Your Thoughts, Clarity in Life, Gratitude, Intention
Wishing things were different than they are keeps your focus on what’s wrong or what’s missing. It is a very uncreative, energy-draining place to be. It keeps you from seeing the daily opportunities to create the life you “wish” you had, as the following scene...
by Gary | Aug 18, 2014 | Above the Line, Acceleration, Change Your Thoughts, Clarity in Life, Clarity In Vision
For a period of time in the early 80’s I owned what I consider to be the best car in the world – a Porsche 911. During this time of pure, adrenaline driving joy, I acquired a bakers dozen speeding tickets in five states. (Hey, remember the speed limit was reduced by...
